The Comparison Trap: Owning One's Bravery
When doing something for the first time it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison. Nerves can overtake and swallow one's confidence. Then self doubt creeps in. But this is the very moment when you need to be brave, to be bold. And after recounting a story I often hear, "Wow that was so brave." Or, "I could never do that." I realized no one can see our self doubt. So here's the secret, any time you're tempted to doubt whether you could do something yourself, ask the storyteller for the backstory. Not all will share, but it never hurts to ask. Do you share your backstory? This is important. So let me repeat it: No one can see our self doubt. We're not walking around with a blinking billboard arrow pointing down at us screaming "Danger. Danger. Will Robinson. Imposter! Imposter!"